For I too was a son to my father, still tender, and cherished by my mother.
Proverbs 4:3 NIV
The book of Proverbs offers valuable wisdom, often presented as a father addressing his sons. In Proverbs 4:1, Solomon starts by saying, “Listen, my sons, to a father’s instruction; pay attention and gain understanding.” This is a powerful call to action, urging us to actively listen and seek knowledge.
The world throws distractions our way constantly, but amidst the noise, there’s an important voice we must choose to listen to: the voice of wisdom. It beckons us to embrace knowledge and understanding. Just like a loving father, God desires to guide us towards wisdom and understanding. But how can we truly benefit from his teachings? Solomon provides a crucial insight: we must remain teachable.
In verse 3, he states, “For I too was a son to my father, still tender and cherished by my mother.” This seemingly simple verse holds profound meaning. It reminds us that even a wise teacher like Solomon was once a son who needed guidance. It emphasizes that learning is a lifelong process and humility is essential.
Imagine a young, growing tree. Its flexibility allows for gentle shaping and guidance. However, an old, sturdy tree resists manipulation and risks breaking. Similarly, a heart that remains open and receptive to learning thrives under God’s guidance. Conversely, a proud and self-sufficient attitude hinders spiritual growth.
Therefore, the invitation extends to everyone, regardless of age. Whether we are young or old, we can all benefit from relinquishing pride and embracing teachability. This means actively seeking God’s guidance through prayer, studying his word, and listening to wise counsel.
Remember, the most transformative lessons often occur during our “tender years,” both physically and spiritually. It’s during these formative periods that we are most receptive to shaping and growth. So, let us all heed the call to listen, learn, and grow in the wisdom and understanding that God offers.
